My father’s favorite poem, Rudyard Kipling’s “If-“, begins and ends with the following lines that have always resonated with me.
If you can keep your head when all about youAre losing theirs and blaming it on you,If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,But make allowance for their doubting too;If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:…If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch,If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,If all men count with you, but none too much;If you can fill the unforgiving minuteWith sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son!
I admire those who are cool under pressure – neurosurgeons, fighter pilots, and mothers of small children. While neurosurgeons and fighter pilots are trained to anticipate fast-moving crises, mothers daily face a host of unforeseeable emergencies. No one can predict where a small child will climb, what he will find and then eat, or what deep existential questions she will ask. Men, remember this when you ask your wife, ‘how was your day? what did you do today?’ — brace yourselves. Whatever challenges you overcame were child’s play compared to the ones fielded by your children’s mother.
I am always in awe of how my wife handles the moment of crisis. She may be rattled to the core, but she never lets it show. She is all business. Assessing damage, applying relief, anticipating the next step and dialing back everyone else’s drama, even if her own is skyrocketing. Her faith in God’s goodness, wisdom and providence is daily put to the test and refined into a thing of growing beauty and strength. Struggle is good. But it is still struggle. It does not merit us anything, but it may mentor us. Struggle is the agency of refinement. James, the brother of the Jesus, put it this way.
Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing. James 1:2-4
Crisis is an unavoidable part of life in a fallen world. We try out best to avoid it. We have text and app alerts for weather, bank balances, family location or status changes, hoping to get ahead of a situation before it escalates. We have more news feeds than Reuters, keeping us abreast of developing stories. We insulate our lives with insurance, security systems, backup power, and our “emergency fund.” After all, Dave Ramsey assures us that those with an “emergency fund” don’t have emergencies. But what about those crises that are bigger than our plans or our preparation? Crises like financial ruin, sickness and death, irreconcilable estrangements, and even national and natural disasters? Crises which penetrate to the depths of our souls. How do we manage when the crises are unmanageable?
Jeremiah was called to a ministry of crisis. From his calling to his conclusion, Jeremiah’s life and ministry was one of sorrow and struggle. He was a man of great faith in the midst of a faithless generation, called to preach judgment to his beloved people. But as we read through Jeremiah’s preaching, as well as his emotional confessions and lamentations, we see a man who was,
never a dispassionate observer of his nation’s sufferings, but entered into the anguish of the people and suffered with them…. [He bore] a message of divine judgement while at the same time sharing the sufferings of the people…. [He was a man] torn asunder between God and the people, to both of whom [he] was bound with deep ties. The Book of Jeremiah, J. A. Thompson
As God’s people suffer His gracious, Fatherly discipline for their unrepentance and idolatry, Jeremiah struggles along with them. And by observing his struggle, the Lord sets before us warning and direction as we wrestle with God’s chastening. What will God’s refining work provoke in us? Bitterness? Accusation? Presumption? Growing hardness? Faith and repentance? Lustrous silver? Or only dross?
Join us this Sunday, January 12, as we examine Jeremiah 14 and consider how the prophet’s lament in a time of crisis warns and instructs us as we respond to God’s refining work. We meet from 5:00 – 6:30 pm in The Commons at St. Andrews Anglican Church at 8300 Kanis Rd in Little Rock. Click here for directions. Come with a friend and join us for fellowship and worship. We look forward to seeing you there.